I was 5 when it all started. My own brother he molested me for 9 years. I am now 13 and spoke up a few months ago. They don’t believe me though. They say there’s no evidence to prove this and my mom refuses to let me see a gynecologist so I don’t have to suffer anymore. All my friends are guys but I have two best friends who are girls. Everyone says I’m a whore because I hang around with guys. It’s not true. It’s just because there’s no drama. When they talk about sex I’ll joke but on the inside I hurt. They you a virgin I say yes because I’m scared what they’ll think about me.
— Survivor, age 13
Dear survivor, you are very very brave for speaking up and for sharing your story here. I want you to know that I believe you. I think sometimes it is easier for people to believe that a survivor is lying than it is to believe the truth. That said, I believe every single word you wrote and I am very proud of you for writing it. I also know that what people say about you is not true. I can see that it is very painful for you. What I also see is a strong, brave, and courageous young woman who, despite not being believed, is standing in her truth. I hope that sharing your story here has helped you and I want you to know that your words will help a lot of other survivors with experiences like yours. Light and love to you – Alissa, Brave Miss World Team Member
Dear Survivor,
I also know what what it is to be raped by a sibling. I want you to know that you are a virgin. I am a healthcare provider, and I guarantee any other health care professional would agree. You are a virgin until you consensually participate in a sexual act. No one can take that away from you. Be well.
-Lila
Dear Survivor, I am so sorry that the people around you aren’t able to support you in the way you need and deserve. You are showing great strength and courage in the middle of a very painful and traumatic situation. I believe you, and I am confident that everyone who reads your story of survival on this site will believe you as well. Much love to you.