It was 4 years ago. I was 15 then. M from a place Where rape,harassment is no big deal, people really think girls as sex material that’s all. I had a boyfriend then. I bunked my classes n went out with him. There was a train station. In that area there were some burnt train compartments where nobody ever goes. I went there with him. I didn’t know what his intentions were. I didn’t know about that anything like that could happen to me. He kissed me. That was d first time ever. Then v heard people coming towards us. If they would have seen us then that would have been a problem. So he suggested to get off from two different gates before anybody comes. He got off when I turned back that compartment was completely burnt. I couldn’t reach another gate since it was burnt. 4 men came. Two of them held each of my hands. One of them was standing just in front of me. Then one was at d gate. They started touching me slapping me tore off my top. They pulled me. They threw me on to d floor. Then my bf came back. He saw what was happening. That area is normally in police patrol for fixed hours. V pleaded them to let me go. I cried like hell. Although they didn’t rape me but I was badly hurt. V got off from there. I never told my parents about it because I know they would stop my education n would get me married somewhere or might kill me also. I was torn. Then I came to know that guy cheated on me. He kept asking for sex and I kept on denying. There are very few people who know about this. Some of them don’t seem to care also. M in a relationship. He knows about this. But treats me as if he is doing some favor on me by staying with me after all that. Do I really deserve this? All those things keep coming back to me. I feel so lonely. There’s no one I could talk to About this. There’s no more story. The story is of my best friend. She was very ill. She was admitted to hospital. She was in icu. She got harassed by the compounder there. She knew he is doing something wrong to her but couldn’t scream resist or call anyone. She told her parents. Then she opened to me. I couldn’t do anything for her. I feel so terrible. I feel so lonely.
— Survivor, age 19
dont worry ……there are thousand like you …..i am also a survivor …..may god help you
Wait so you are saying there are no laws against rape in your area. I would highly suggest you fight to have laws past to outlaw rape. On behalf of men, the real men who do do this shit I am truly sorry.
Dear survivor,
You reached out to the Brave Miss World community and shared your truth. You may feel alone and lonely – but your story is safe here with a community that understands your pain. You did not deserve what happened to you and you do not deserve to be treated as if someone is doing you a favor by staying with you. Please know that even if you felt like you couldn’t do anything for your friend, you did more than you know just by listening. Sometimes just having a safe place to put your story does wonders. Thank you for sharing your story. You are very brave. Light and love to you, Alissa
Dear Survivor,
Please do not feel terrible and lonely darling. You are not alone. There are millions of girls who have gone through this; who understand your pain.
I will tell you something. If you can not go to police or parents and can not take any action against the men; then you have to move on. You have to be strong and have faith on yourself. If you believe in god; then please have faith on God or have faith on yourself. you have to be strong. This world is evil but there are lot of good people too. Please do not stay with you boy friend who think he is doing you a favour. you will find people who are good. Please stay strong; have faith and if possible pursue you career, Financial independence will make you strong and confident.
I was 7 at the time and I’m now 13. I was at my friends house and her dad came in the room and told her to get out I got up to go with her but he didn’t let me he pushed me back on the bed and got on top he pulled my pants down and started to touch me I was balling and tell him to stop but everytime I said stop he would go faster and harder then he raped me and I walked home crying and in pain. The really sad thing is my family didn’t find out till like two days ago bc I told my boyfriend and he told my sister I’m thankful for my boyfriend