Many people think that rape consists of a man putting their private parts into a woman. It is more than that, rape can be by an object. I remember I was four when it happened to me. The person who did was probably in their late twenties. When she came into the house I was taught that she was a nice person but the day she did it, I knew she was nothing but an evil person. My guardian would go to the supermarket and she would do it to me. When ever my guardian would go somewhere I would beg her but she did not know why. She did it five times. A lot of times I blamed my self and I got therapy. I can say that it was good but the pain still lingers. Even if I was four I still live the pain. I was also molested. Due to this event I seclude myself from the world and I am scared of my family and I would cry my soul out. Even though I know that my family would not do this to me , I am scared because it was a family and due to the place I lived I could not tell anyone.
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I’m heart broken to hear what u went through .. the pain some how never leaves u.. 🙁 .. I’m glad u sought therapy… Be compassionate to yourself .. u were just a child and no one’s deserves what you went through.. much love and care coming ur way.. if u have some one to support u makes a big difference..
You are absolutely right that there is no one form of rape. It takes many different forms but whatever form it takes, you are NEVER to blame. It doesn’t matter how old you were at the time, you are allowed to feel whatever you need to feel. I am glad you got therapy; please don’t think that you can’t get more therapy if you are struggling. There’s no time limit and the healing process can be long with many twists and turns. But what happened wasn’t your fault and you can heal. Love, Alexis