I was 16 years old at the time and the boyfriend that I was with for a year had just told me he lost feelings. My best friend, her boyfriend and his friends always had “bros nights”. I was invited by my best friends boyfriend so he picked me up at my house around 2 am. I had to sneak out my parents would never let me go out that late. So I got in his car and was wondering where everyone else is. He told me he wanted to talk to me about something. He drove out to the beach and we walked on the dock. When we got to the end he dared me to go skinny dipping and that’s when I knew something was wrong. So I started walking back to the car my excuse was that I was cold. So I got in the car and he started touching me inappropriately. I didn’t know what to do I couldn’t walk home I couldn’t call my parents because I snuck out. I was stuck. He proceeded to seduce me into the back seat where he raped me. I haven’t been able to tell me story to anyone. One day he told my best friend him and I had sex and I haven’t been able to tell her he raped me… I don’t know how. My boyfriend and I got back together and I haven’t told him either. We were broken up at the time but now a year has passed and I really feel like he deserves to know.. I don’t know what to do please help me.
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First thank you for posting here. I am really proud of you for posting your story here. Telling someone what happened is really hard. But first… no one “deserves” to know anything. This is about YOU and what is best for you and what will help you heal. One thing I would say is that you don’t have to tell everything at once. You can start with something like “someone hurt me” and see how he reacts. But in the end, it’s really about how much you think you can handle and how much you want to share. It can also help to “practice” telling your story to a therapist or a counselor. He/she can help you work through what you’re feeling and help you feel supported as you navigate your journey. It’s not an easy or a short one but you can do it. I believe in you!! Love, Alexis
Are counselors allowed to tell anyone??
Please princess tell him now or it will be too late for you. Let your boyfriend find out from you before he finds out from someone else. And also be strong enough to tell you bestfriend if she’s really your best friend you will see it.