I am the mother of a girl who has been raped. we have just moved to Sweden, from another west European country. my daughter tried to make new friends in the klsine village Asljunga where we live. As an overreacted mother, I went to see the parents and whether there are certain values and values.
In retrospect, it turned out to be not a nice friend and had forgotten to tell the foster parents that their foster daughter is completely unleashed, and does everything that God has forbidden. This so-called girlfriend has taken my daughter to the lake, less than 500 meters from our house. Also, this girlfriend has two boys from 16 and 17 years.
to make a long story short, 1 of these guys raped my daughter, every time she did not work, he pushed her under water.
it has a lot of imnpact on our whole family, we are devastated.
It was hard to see how my daughter was taken away with the ambulance, having talked to ten different police officers, sisters, doctors and psychologists. How the boy has been released because of lack of evidence and several witnesses. how we are totally at the ground, how my husband lost his job, was severely depresseded at home. how we are stuck in this village where everyone knows what happened and has his own opinion about it. we simply can not return to our own country, we are imprisoned here as a family.
i just want to let you guys know, that it have a impact on a family.
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I am so sorry, I have no words for how sad this is.. I hope you all heal from this. Please reach out to someone you know will help, those people are closer than you may think. Everyone is capable of healing and I don’t normally give out my info to people on this site but if your family or your daughter want to talk about anything you can contact me through this email: phoenixfirebird656@gmail.com and if anyone else sees this, don’t send me memes through that email. I don’t like that. I prefer to look up my own memes. I wish you luck in healing ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this. You’re absolutely right that rape impacts so many people. I think it’s really important that you are acknowledging how much what happened to her is impacting you.
You said that you saw your daughter talking to psychologists – if it’s possible I would encourage her to keep going if she is willing. You might also consider talking to one if you have the ability. The RAINN website also has some resources for loved ones of survivors. The website is in the “Get Help” section of this website but here is the link as well: https://www.rainn.org/recovering-sexual-violence. I know this is much easier said than done but it’s important for you both to take care of yourselves so that you can help her. Sending you lots of love, Alexis